Lost.death.grief

It's another new day people!Rise and shine!
I woke up early this morning despite of sleeping late again.Cannot blame me ar,I'm used to sleeping late.Went to college quite blur,the eyes was like how many thousand tones heavy,i know,hyperbola ma,but i feel so sleepy @.@.
Doctor Calvin tean speak on death,grief and lost today,it was related to what I learn too.He was talking about his own patient after he announce that he was having terminal illness.
Human's are really complicated beings.One will never appreciate something until he/she lost it or notice that the old one is far better than the new one.People,i will be putting he all along the post because i'm lazy to type he/she so many times @.@.
The usual reaction for normal people after they know they get something that they shouldn't be getting,the first reaction will be in the stage of denial.
thoughts like:This is impposible..how could this happen?The must be something wrong else where,i know it's not me..
If by chance he can accept it, then he will proceed to the next level which is anger.Thoughts like:''Why me?Where did God gave this to me?And he will begin to get angry easily,annoyed easily,getting agitated easily.No matter how nicely people talk to them,he can't control his anger.
The third stage will be bargain.He will begin to make a bargain,i will pray more,but God,You must heal me.I will donate more money,but God,I want to live longer.Is it reallly useful?i don't know.
The fourth stage will be depressed.He will start to retrict on people coming to visit him,he don't want ppl to see his condition.Feels weak physically and mentally,even the souls feels tired.
The last stage will be acceptance.One will start expressing or writting his last will.At this stage,they don't care about anything anymore,hopes are given up,lights have turned dark,everything is on the blackout.

Actually these experiences is not only based in medical field,often in our life we face these situations,we often ask ourselves,why me?This is not true?this is not fair!and then we just simply give up,isn't this true?treasure the opportunities when you are having them,don't feel regret about the decision you make because that is already counted as past,it remains in your history.

CHeers!